The Problem with Big Boobs

Not many asian people have the "luxury" to have big chest. Many a times girls without get jealous or do things in hopes of getting them: botox, plastic surgeries, push up bras, etc. Even boys who have friends that have a female partner who has them can only be in envy.

Well, i, for one who has them, really really REALLY do not want them.

I don't really understand, because honestly, other than a nice S-shaped figure, what else is good about big boobs?

These are just some problems that i personally face:

1. Choosing bra

Choosing bras is NVR easy. Why? Simply because almost every nice looking bra with cute designs and pattern are all either too small a cup or too small a chest size. I have to go to at least 5 different bra shops just to find one that looks decent enough to wear. 

What is worst is that most of the time even the colour that a busty bra has available is black, white and nude. What kind of colour choice is that?

2. Getting the correct clothes

Sure sure, people always say busty girls look good in everything. 

But hey, if you are living in a country where majority of the girls ( no offense intended ) are not having the same/similar bust size, you can't find many clothes because the shop cater to the majority. Which means its a disadvantage for people with huge boobs. 

3. CLEAVAGE

Don't deny it boys! Most of you LOVE girls with cleavages. Those are probably the first things that boys always look at when looking at a girl. Its not our fault that we girls with bigger chest tend to grab the boys' attention, most of the time we didn't even ask for it to be like that. 

Cleavage makes other girls* have certain impressions on us:

1. We are attention seeking

2. We probably have done botox or something to make our bust bigger.

3. We are show offs.

Whereas for guys*:

1. Oh her boyfriend must be so lucky

2. Those boobs must be HUGE. 

*Not applicable to all, i'm not gonna generalize. 

So there you have it, my reasons for why big boobs are such a trouble. 

Hope you guys liked it. 

Mistakes, who is ever perfect?

It doesn't matter whether you are a rich parent's child or not, neither does it matter if you have had many experience or not at a certain skill in life. We ALL make mistakes.

Mistakes vary, it can be big ones where law and regulations are implemented, or it can be small ones where just a little sympathy and forgiveness is needed.

But sometimes, small ones can get out of hand and you may find yourself in the middle, where people find it harder to forgive you with an open heart.

Most people who have experienced being the victim will know, after that one mistake, people find it harder to trust you. People start avoiding you, they start to change the way they interact with you . Then slowly, the distance gets further, the times you interact with these people will shorten. When you start to notice, you'll realize that good relationships are gone.

Despite that, one must always look on the bright side and make a difference in your life. That's what i have always believed.

Although your careless mistakes may have lead to a partial downfall in your life, you need to realise that you must never let that hold you down. No matter how seemingly impossible that may be, always hold on to that little bit of hope and dream. With a little push with courage, overcome that obstacle. Forget about the horrid past that has happened, you cant do about it now can you? So move on, start afresh or start to make it your step to achieve that forgiveness.

Tell yourself: It will be alright.